Be ProActive, Use Your Personal Power
Have you run into a mortal who's so naturally friendly that when
you put him within a room of strangers, he'll be friends with
almost everybody in no time We call such a people-person,
somebody incredibly nice and magnetic that he may charm
anybody into doing anything. It is an important part of personal
A socially-empowered individual accomplishes so much greatness,
essentially because of the individuals that slingshot him to success.
He earns the trust and full-scale support of the individuals, whom he
had assisted before. He never runs out of help. He may do anything
with the plethora of individuals behind him. All because he recognizes
he maximizes his social potential!
See, if you understand your social skills and you capitalize on them,
you'll reach self-empowerment. Self-empowerment is making a general
overhaul in your life and turning yourself into a more pleased and more
successful individual. If you are able to be among those people-persons,
then I can't see any reason why you won't succeed. You just have to
understand how to start.
Hypocrisy will just bring you down. Be truly nice and interested in individuals.
Once they perceive that you're Mr. Phony with selfish intentions, you may
as well say adios to self-empowerment.
To earn trust of the individuals, listen to their troubles and feel for them. Don't
just hear them out; listen to them with your core. Make eye contact when the
individual talks to you. Listen as though every word matters and it does. You
get Brownie points when they discover that there's a confidante in you.
You don't have to be Rockefeller and waste your savings. Small acts of kindness
matter the most, and this may be as simple as giving somebody a surprise card
or helping a senior cross the street. Now is the time to resurrect the good deeds
and this time, let them stay permanently.
Pitiful how some friendships are fated to goodbye, but thanks to technology, you
are able to do something about it. Relive the good old days by seeking the great
people whom you want to communicate with once again. Adding these old
acquaintances to your roster of support peers will certainly make you feel great
Are you crabby, grouchy and generally dark Stop, you can't go through life that
way. Eliminate the bad traits and habits that constantly cramp your growth. And
truly, who wants a crabby friend anyhow?
When angry, don't snap at anybody. Never throw a conniption. Stay calm and
collected. Be adult enough to take charge of situation and transform your
angriness into something richer and passive.
Your relationship with your loved ones, friends and associates is too precious
so you must not neglect it whatever happens. Go out and have fun with them.
Do things together.
Ultimately, utilizing individuals for self-empowerment means becoming a better
and more lovable individual. It's a win-win situation the individuals know they
may turn to you anytime and vice versa.